It is with great personal sadness that I wish to let this SCLS community know of the death this past Friday morning (11/27/09) in Baltimore, Maryland, of Judith Lynne (Judy) Davis, 51 years old, as a result of complications following an extraordinarily severe episode of SCLS.
She passed away comforted and surrounded by family and friends, including her wonderful husband Richard and her two loving sons, who had planned to spend the Thanksgiving holiday with their parents.
Judy had been a highly regarded and compassionate pediatric nurse at the top-ranked Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, and she had been coping valiantly with her chronic SCLS since it was diagnosed in late 2004.
To my knowledge, Judy was the first SCLS patient in the United States who waived her rights to medical privacy and actively sought out to meet, exchange information with, and comfort other patients with this exceedingly rare disease.
For this purpose, she would write, call and visit whoever else accepted her friendship, and this is how I came to know Judy in 2006 – when I too decided to go in search of other patients with SCLS, and was put in touch with her by Dr. Philip Greipp of the Mayo Clinic. Since that time, my wife and I have spoken with and met in person with Judy and Richard countless times, whether in New York, Baltimore or Washington, DC.
However, Judy and I went through an emotionally very tough time in late 2007-early 2008, when we learned of the death (from SCLS-related complications) of the only three other patients we knew or had heard about: the late Marianne, Russell and Glenn from Cincinnati, upstate New York and North Carolina, respectively.
We felt as lonely as if we were the last two SCLS patients left on this planet, and no matter how much we tried to comfort one another, we knew that to bolster our emotional sanity, we had to find a way to get in touch with other survivors of SCLS. They probably also felt just like we did, leading lonely lives struggling with this rare and frequently misdiagnosed illness.
And, sure enough, a ray of hope opened up in May 2008, when I got an email message inviting me to explore the newly launched _www.rareshare.org_ site, which I did. That same day I seized the opportunity and set up this SCLS virtual community site, but for several weeks thereafter Judy and I were its only members – and we still felt all alone.
But then that July an SCLS patient from Idaho joined in (nwbsaw), and soon more and more patients, relatives and medical professionals came out from obscurity from all over the world and joined the site, to the point where we now count 70 members and have collectively explored more than 40 discussion topics – to most of which Judy contributed actively.
This innovative way for patients with rare diseases to communicate with one another, and to share basic tips and vital information, caught the eye of _The Washington Post_ earlier this year, and the newspaper ran a story that featured the site and quoted Judy and me and other members in its February 10th, 2009 edition.
So may I take this opportunity to dedicate this SCLS virtual community site to *Judith Lynne Davis*, a caring and exemplary woman, wife, mother, daughter, sister and nurse who reached out and touched so many of us and gave us the emotional support we sorely needed.
Please join me in asking God to grant her husband Richard and her two sons, and her siblings and other close relatives, the strength of faith and character to endure this terrible personal loss.