Hi Carol!!!
Well. for I can see in your story, there were clear stressful events going on in your life every time you got sick. I believe they are not the cause, but stress can trigger the crisis, isn´t it?
It was a very stressful moment too, when I get sick. I was very pregnant when I moved, and It was a big change in my life, even I live very close to my previous home. But the most stressful moment was the delivery of my baby, and I always thought that was it, I get sick during that night. I was planing a non-intervention delivery. In vertical position and without epidural. I didn´t believe in pain. Well, I was wrong, and SO SURPRISED!! LABOR PAIN DO EXISTS!!! I felt very disappointed for not being able of have a transcendental, yoga-like, delivery, but the truth is I scream during all the process, and finally get an epidural. I used to be very hard on myself. I think being ill make me change that. I´m not in charge of the world any more!!!!
I´m also having my eyes checked, because my doctor will give me plaquenil again starting tomorrow probably (I´m seeing her tomorrow) It was the only drug I was taking before the diagnosis in December...
Well, Carol, Thank you so much for reading and sharing!!!
Kisses
Julia