Angalee,
Welcome to our Community!
Here you will find a great deal of information and also the companionship and moral support that we all need.
I started this forum in mid-2008 precisely because I was starving for all of those things, and having even just a few members made a huge difference to me in every way.
This illness typically affects middle-aged adults, and that's bad enough, but when we discovered that there were some children afflicted and also some people in their thirties, our hearts went out to them. I'm sure you feel overwhelmed, being as you are in the prime of your life, and my heart goes out to you.
So here are 2 suggestions. First, have your hematologist look through this site, especially the tabs "Disorder Details" and "Disorder Resources." Insist that he contact Dr. Kirk Druey at NIH ASAP by telephone and/or email -- the information is there, at the bottom of the "Disorder Details" tab, in order to have your diagnosis confirmed, and if so to get his help in having the IVIG approved. You will need to authorize him to discuss your case, send over your medical history, hospital records, and blood samples from any other episodes you endure.
Second, go through this site yourself, checking our those same sections plus a number of the Discussion Forum topics. You must become educated as to this condition, in case you really do have it and need to live with it, and you will find comfort in the fact that others have gone through what you have gone through -- and then some, sustaining permanent damage to limbs and vital organs. You will find comfort in other people's stories of survival and adaptation.