Hi Sydney, I was diagnosed at 41, I was due to start a new job too but was signed off for 10months and then had a phased return to full time work. It's a struggle, at the end of each week I'm amazed I've completed another week without any time off, but I'm lucky that my new job is mostly desk work. I've had this 5 years, I'm still adjusting to the new me, but I'm a lot better than I was at diagnosis. Don't try to rush the process of your healing, it's frustrating but life has to be at a slower pace. Improvement will come once you have found the right meds for you, I started on imuran but didn't have good results, my best improvement has been on cellcept, but no drug regime suits everyone, frustratingly it seems to he trial and error for each individual. Take care